Monday, June 9, 2008

For the greater good...

So, remember when I applied for that job at The Children's Hospital in Denver at the end of last year? Well, I just got offered an interview for it (the hiring process moves slowly in bureaucracies), which of course led to a serious discussion with K about whether to move forward with the process. I knew the answer even before I approached him to talk about it though. I just withdrew my application from consideration.

I know that this is the right thing for us as a couple, which should ultimately mean that it is the right thing for me as well. This would have been a non-issue though if I was making this decision independently. But, I'm not. I just really hope that I don't end up resenting him for this on those days (like today) when I have a bad day at work.

We have a good life here together and that will continue.

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